Understanding the narcissist emotional age helps put some things into perspective. A young child throwing a temper tantrum is irritating but something to be expected as a part of normal development. A full-grown man behaving in an angry, irrational way is just frightening and dangerous. I don’t know how to stop that but at least I know the narcissist is reacting in an abnormal way to life. I no longer blame myself for his reactions. I’ll keep getting better but he will always be a narcissist.