The term “healthy boundaries” is a relatively new addition to my vocabulary. I realize now that my lack of boundaries left me open to abuse and manipulation. It is not easy to define one’s boundaries, but it is entirely necessary for self-preservation. There are things in this life I am not willing to accept any longer, and I am better off alone than in another boundary-lacking relationship. The thought of another person entering my life and wreaking havoc and constant chaos where there is relative peace is unacceptable. The truth is, there may not be room in my life for any more people right now, and I am okay with that. For the time being, I plan to define my boundaries clearly and maybe even write them in stone.