Realizing the narcissists in my life knew very well what they were doing was a revelation for me. They purposefully and knowingly hurt others without regret, empathy, or taking any responsibility. They are in control of their actions at all times. Ultimately, the priority is to impress those who have yet to see behind their masks. Narcissists do it on purpose!
Narcissists are the wooooooorst. I’m glad you can see through them now!
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So true … It is a revelation; you are quite right. Knowledge is power. x
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They do know exactly what they are doing.
Their acts are planned in a cold deliberate manner, to inflict maximum pain.
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I was made the very same point to somebody this week.
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They can be so manipulative!
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They kill trust and friendship
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They are not human, soulless beings.
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They ask question repeatedly untill you are forced to say yesits not you its me. Taking my will. No more been attacked physically multiple times when i stood up but im alive and am healing trying to help as Sara thank you for everything you write.
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No, they can’t actually control them, Sara, but the rest is quite true.
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Thank you for the comment. I must disagree about the control. In my experience they can turn it on and off like a light switch. They are most definately in control!
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I haven’t had the chance to read your whole blog so I don’t know your whole story, but I know what it’s like to be forced to MOVE BACK HOME with narcissists because of chronic illness; that’s an incredibly difficult thing to have to handle, especially when you don’t want to be there just because of independence. And then when they can feed off that energy … it’s not good. I was fortunate enough to get “healthy ENOUGH” to move out, but I hear you – they hurt you and they know what they’re doing … and it’s just unfortunate that for some of us with difficult life circumstances because there are times when we just CANNOT get out!
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Beth, I can’t imagine having to move back home with the narcissist, particularly when you are already fighting chronic illness. One of my worst nightmares was of moving back home, and so far, I’ve avoided that situation. I don’t understand the callousness with which some people treat others, the refusal to consider how another person feels, and the refusal to change. I’m glad you were able to get out. We are both fortunate to have escaped. My thoughts go out to those who are still trapped.
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